A study by Dutch psychologist Keidenberg shows that if two people always maintain fluency during the conversation, both sides will feel a sense of self-esteem and it is easier to reach a consensus。If the conversation breaks down4In seconds or more, people feel embarrassed, worried, anxious, incompatible and excluded, and it is very difficult to return to the process of close communication。
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